A stunning look for that special evening!

i have fallen in love with this stunning evening dress.

Not that i have anyone in mind to take me to an event where i would wear this gorgeous dress, heels, and accessories put together by Chalany High Heels, but i would just love to have the figure to wear the look.  i adore anything red and this dress is just oh so elegant.

Mermaid Bateau Neck Crystal Sweep Train Evening Dress; $221.29 from TB Dress

Wear the dress with these gorgeous ultra high heels (120mm or 4.7″)

High Stiletto Heel Pointed Toe Women’s Pumps; $42.99 from TB Dress.

 along with this elegant glitzy clutch 

Shining Rhinestone Wedding/Evening Handbag just $27.39 from TB Dress

 and these fabulous drop earrings.

Red Alloy with Rhinestone Earrings; $22.99 from TB Dress

Friday, fitness and fun with Mistress Ana

i had been to visit Mistress Ana last Tuesday as usual and did some ironing and a little bit of cleaning.  While i was there, two of Mistress’ 3 sons called in at different times and we chatted a little but for the most part, i just busied myself about with the chores that Mistress asked me to do.  However, She asked me to also go to Her house on Friday and told me to bring some fitness gear as She planned to go walking and then to have a coffee somewhere.
i did have some fitness gear which i stole from my wife some time ago but when i raked it out of my cupboard it did not smell too savoury but it would have to do.  As things turned out though, i had to call in at a shopping mall on my way to Mistress’ in order to get my phone checked at the local Telstra shop and while i was waiting for them to open, i decided to take a quick look in K-Mart to see if they had any fitness gear going cheap.  i was in luck and managed to buy both a top and leggings for just $15.
Once i got to Mistress’ house, i let myself in to find Mistress still in bed.  However, She got up and dressed while i changed from male mode to “en femme” in my new gym gear.  We then got into the car and drove the short distance to the coast where i parked the car and we set off to walk along the coastal footpaths.  It was a beautiful warm sunny morning and there were plenty of people out and about enjoying the lovely weather.  
We walked for about 45 minutes and then returned to the car and i drove us to a coffee shop close to Mistress’house where i bought us both drinks and we sat outside and enjoyed them, chating away about something and nothing.  While waiting for the coffee and hot chocolate to arrive, i wandered along to the dress shop next door where there were a few items on a rack outside that were on offer.  Mistress took some pictures of me while browsing the clothes rack, walking back to our table and while seated.  At least you can see my new gym gear!

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i was particularly pleased to hear Mistress compliment me on how far i had come with my feminisation in the 6 years that we have known each other.  She complimented me on my style which i am pleased to say she acknowledged was not always slutty, as well as my make-up skills, deportment etc. etc.  i have to say that it has not and would not have happened without Her guidance and also the help and advice of Her daughter, especially with regards to make up.
It does not seem like 6 years since our relationship began for time flies but yet it also seems hard to remember what my life was like without being Her slave for our relationship is now so strong it feels as if it has always been this way.  i enjoy serving Mistress Ana but i also enjoy our girly time together such as we had on Friday and have had on a couple of other Fridays recently.  It feels so good to be out and about doing things as a woman with a wonderful friend for company,

The New Going-Out Shoes: 26 Pairs Of Spectacular Summer Heels

Being a lover of heels i really enjoyed this post in Lucky Mag by AMANDA KEISERDIGITAL STYLE DIRECTOR of Lucky Mag and decided that i had to share it.  Read on and enjoy.

The New Going-Out Shoes: 26 Pairs Of Spectacular Summer Heels

Remember when going out for the night meant arduously piling on woolly layers, freeze-proofing your makeup and having to choose your shoes based on their ability to survive snow, sleet and ice? Talk about a buzzkill. Luckily, winter is in the rearview (we’re going to go ahead and pretend that’s a permanent situation), and we’re almost in full summer swing (Jacket? What’s a jacket?). It’s time to go out!
And this time of year, when you’re perusing your shoe selection for that Saturday night fete, all you need to worry about is which pair is the prettiest. Need a few examples? The 26 next-level heels in the slideshow above are so fantastically cool, they’ll make you want to go out every night this summer. Or you could just crank up the AC, put your feet up and take in their beauty. Either way.

ZARA COMBINATION HIGH HEEL SANDAL $79.90 from zara.com Tricolour wraparound high-heel sandals. Straps in a combination of blue, green and black. Lace up closure. Heel height of 10 cm.

STELLA MCCARTNEY, METALLIC FAUX LEATHER SANDALS, $460.00 from theoutnet.com Stella McCartney silver sandals. Made in Italy. Metal-plated wooden heel measures approximately 115mm/ 4.5 inches. Faux leather. Open round toe Buckle-fastening ankle strap

DIANE VON FURSTENBERG, VIOLET SANDAL, $325.00 from shop.nordstrom.com. A slender slingback strap tops a svelte peep-toe mule lifted by a tall, slim heel.

SOL SANA, FOGAL HEEL, $189.95. Have a monochrome moment with artsy etchings and elastic straps. A sturdy heel keeps the look comfortable. Material: Leather Made in Australia

SOPHIA WEBSTER, LIBERTY PRINTED LEATHER SANDALS, $650.00 from net-a-porter.com Sophia Webster’s bright and colorful ‘Liberty’ sandals are cut to frame and support your feet perfectly. This pair is made from smooth leather playfully printed in a zigzag motif. We say style them with rolled denim.

REISS, MARCIE WOVEN T-BAR SANDALS, $285.00 from reiss.com Reiss woven T-bar sandals. Crafted from pure, supple leather in nude and gold, the Marcie woven T-bar sandals will ensure that your footwear collection remains on-point. Each shoe fastens with a gold buckle at the ankle and features golden weave detail to each toe.

TOPSHOP UNIQUE, FOLDED STRAP SANDALS, $230.00 from us.topshop.com TOPSHOP UNIQUE green textile folded strap heeled sandals with wrap-around laces. Heel height – 3.5 inches. Dust bag included in packaging. 100% Textile. Spot clean only.

DANNIJO, EMIL, $350.00 from dannijo.com. Danni’s go-to. #steponit PRE-ORDER: This piece is specially made for you. Please allow 2-3 weeks for delivery. Self-covered heel, 4″ / 100mm Geometric leather gladiator sandals. Leather upper. Two adjustable ankle straps. Back zip. Leather lining and sole. Padded insole.

CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN, MAYERLING SANDALS, $1,095.00 from barneys.com. Christian Louboutin blue suede, matte fluorescent yellow kidskin and silver specchio leather colorblock Mayerling lace-up sandals.

IGGY AZALEA X STEVE MADDEN, UP HIGH JELLY HEEL, $120.00 from nastygal.com. The only thing we love more than Iggy Azalea is her insane collab with Steve Madden. The Up High Jelly Heel has strap design, adjustable ankle strap, and chunky patent vegan leather heel. Cushioned insole. Team it up with a midi pencil skirt or pleated trousers.

TIBI, PIERCE SANDALS, $315.00 from tibi.com. The Pierce is a strappy heel featuring an intricate lace-up front. Leather nappa ties wrap around ankles and sit smoothly against your foot for a comfortable fit. Show off this statement pair with hemlines above the ankle. Fabrication: 100% Leather. Made in Brazil.

DOLCE VITA, CUTOUT GLADIATOR SANDALS, $100.00 from forever21.com. This pair of genuine leather heeled sandals from Dolce Vitaâ„¢ will have you strutting your stuff in style! Featuring a caged cutout gladiator design with a lace-up front, it’ll add a little something special to any outfit.

SOPHIA WEBSTER FOR J. CREW, YAYA HEELS, $595.00 from jcrew.com. After launching her own line in 2012, London designer Sophia Webster created sophisticated yet playful designs that became favorites of the British fashion set—and we totally fell for them too. We teamed up with the young designer, who got her start working for footwear legend Nicholas Kirkwood, to create a collection for us featuring her signature silhouettes and our fabrics and prints. The result? Heels with major personality that you can only find here.

H&M, SANDALS, $49.95 from hm.com. Sandals in imitation leather with a metal buckle at ankle, marble-patterned heels, and rubber soles. Heel height 3 1/2 in.

H&M, SANDALS, $49.95 from hm.com. Sandals in imitation leather with a metal buckle at ankle, marble-patterned heels, and rubber soles. Heel height 3 1/2 in.

PRABAL GURUNG, GEORGIA HEEL, $950.00. It’s a Prabal Gurung first: a shoe collection capturing the brand’s modern aesthetic with luxurious textures, a metallic heel and sleek cutouts. Materials: Leather Made in Italy

FRENCH CONNECTION, NANETTE HIGH HEEL SANDALS, $120.00 from usa.frenchconnection.com. Nanette High Heel Sandals

SENSO, RHIANNON WHITE LEATHER CROC HEELED SANDALS, $290.00 from us.asos.com. Real leather upper. Patent faux-snakeskin finish. Lace-up strappy design. Block high heel. Avoid contact with liquids. 100% Real Leather upper.

VALENTINO, L’AMOUR SANDAL, $1,075.00 from shop.nordstrom.com. Created in collaboration with artist Giosetta Fioroni, this dainty leather sandal is adorned with a feminine heart motif that will charm the truly lovestruck and fashion-enamored.

ULLA JOHNSON, LUZ TASSEL HEELS, $450.00 from madewell.com. As the daughter of archaeologists, Manhattan-born Ulla Johnson went on some incredible family vacations. Her globe-trotting childhood comes through in her thoughtful, subtly embellished designs. Take these cool high-heel sandals-they are trimmed in colorful leather tassels for a where’s-the-party vibe.

COS, METALLIC SANDALS, $225.00 from cosstores.com. These high-heeled sandals are made from metallic leather with a contrast wooden sole. Held in place with thick elastic straps, they have lightly cushioned insoles and leather outer sole.

VINCE, FRIEDA LEATHER SANDAL, $425.00 from vince.com. The staple strappy sandal gets updated this season in modern leather and a wooden block heel. Featuring a Velcro closure at the ankle, this wear-to-work or dinner style gives the impression of multiple straps with thin cutouts. Pair with a dress, shorts or a skirt.

GOLDEN GOOSE DELUXE BRAND, HOPE SANDALS, $447.21 from farfetch.com. Blue leather ‘Hope’ sandals from Golden Goose Deluxe Brand featuring an open toe, an ankle strap, a stylised bubble print, a velcro fastening, a chunky high heel and a rubber sole.

TORY BURCH, EMORI SANDALS, $425.00 from shopbop.com. Glossy strands accent the woven leather vamp of these Tory Burch sandals. Enamel-inlaid wood gives the chunky heel a mod aesthetic. Elastic inset at slingback strap. Rubber patch at leather sole.

M.GEMI, THE GIRASOLE, $228.00 from mgemi.com. Simplicity and understated luxury is unequivocally chic, and we love that we found it in this caramel colored, wear-with-anything sandal. The specialty factory where we make this design is known for its use of natural, hand-burnished leathers and the owners’ love of the effortlessly cool. We fell for the little bit of sex appeal in the ankle strap, accentuated by the leather zipper pull and the gleam of copper on the toe strap. We love these chunky heeled sandals paired with a denim dress.

ALDO, ARNAUDS HIGH-HEEL SANDALS, $90.00 from aldoshoes.com. Two-piece. Single sole. Almond toe. Open toe. Heel Height: 4 in

WHISTLES, MIA BUCKLE BLOCK HEEL SANDAL, $296.00 from whistles.com. With a polished stacked heel and bold square roller buckles, the Mia features two foot straps with a 100% leather upper. Heel measures – 9cm.


Which Panty is Right For You

Which Panty is Right For You

I came across this very useful post from my friend Vanessa Law on Crossdresser Heaven and thought it would be very well worth sharing.  The author is a subscriber to Crossdresser Heaven called Tabitha and i think her insights on this subject are useful to all of us transgender and cross-dressing people.

One Crossdressers Perspective on Choosing the Perfect Panty

Whether you are transgender, a crossdresser, or simply have a fetish for wanting/needing to wear woman’s panties, you will want to choose the style that is the most comfortable for you to wear, as well as present you in the most attractive light should you choose to show someone what you are wearing under your outer clothes! Many lingerie experts will tell you that there are five basic panty styles: bikini, hipster, boyshort, modern brief, and high leg (or high cut) brief. Below is a brief (pun intended) description of each style, and my (perhaps) irreverent thoughts.


Bikini style panties are just like the bikini swimwear that you can see at any beach, and on nearly every episode of the old television shows of Baywatch, Hawaii Five-0, etc. Perhaps a mere 1% of all women in the world look really attractive in a bikini panty; and most of those are under the age of 30. For the transgender or crossdresser, unless you have a hormonally enhanced body, it is going to be difficult to attain an attractive look with a bikini panty. Since a bikini panty contains such a small amount of material, your first concern will probably be how to hide or even cover up your male anatomy. Second, if you have even a small amount of tummy fat, your tummy will naturally try to drop over the top of the panty because a bikini panty is meant to be worn low, (similar to low-rise jeans), or below the natural waistline. So, for the 99% of the world’s population, (which definitely includes me), this panty style is probably not for you.

Bikini Panty


Hipster style panties are similar to bikini panties, but do provide a bit more coverage. Hipsters are also meant to be worn low, but will provide a bit more coverage for your male anatomy. Low rise style seems to be all the rage these days, so this is a good panty choice if you are going to be wearing low-rise outer clothing such as low-rise jeans and shorts. However, those with even a small bit of extra tummy fat will face the same dilemma of a small portion of the tummy wanting to naturally migrate and rest in a place just slightly over the top of the panty. So, for this reason alone, I cannot recommend this style of panty for most of us.


Boyshort panties are aptly named, because they can appear and feel as if you are wearing a pair of shorts, (which means that you probably can’t wear these panties if your outerwear is going to consist of short shorts). Boyshorts offer the greatest coverage for your male anatomy and your legs, and for this reason, are sometimes derisively labeled as ‘granny panties” and/or “vintage panties.” Those who utilize these negative labels often overlook the fact that these panties can be very comfortable as the panty top is meant to sit on the natural waistline.

Boy shorts

Furthermore, they can contour to a wide variety of body styles providing an overall slimming and smooth look. Finally, if you want to shed the “granny panty” look of a boring white panty, know that today’s lingerie designers offer the boyshort in a number of different patterns and bold, vibrant colors. Boyshorts  are not my favorite style of panty, but I do occasionally wear them when I am not wearing outer short shorts.


A modern panty is basically a good compromise between a boyshort and a high leg/high cut panty. It contains a little bit less material than a boyshort, (but still enough for full and comfortable coverage of the male anatomy), while still offering a sexy display of your panty and legs due to its slightly diminished curving side, high cut fit. A modern panty will not likely be mistaken for a granny panty, even though it too sits at the natural waistline, because of its side cut and fit. Modern panties are my second recommended choice to wear on a daily basis.

High Leg/High Cut

High leg/high cut panties offer the best of all worlds in my humble opinion. They offer more than adequate coverage for the male anatomy, while also offering a sexy and attractive high cut, side leg view, (hence the panty’s name). However, beware that not every store sales associate is familiar with the high leg style, (or else they are aware, but have been told to push some other panty style onto the unsuspecting customers). I have occasionally had sales associates steer me to the bikini and/or boyshort panties when I requested the location of the high leg panties; and one sales associate even told me that what I really meant was that I was searching for a boyshort panty)! I was a bit aggravated at basically being told that I, as the customer, was wrong; but I have since learned that a lot of sales associates working in lingerie stores/lingerie sections in department stores, have less knowledge of lingerie than me. So, I give my highest recommendation of this panty style to all; as I believe that you will feel comfortable wearing it all day under your outer clothes, and that you will be tempted at the end of the workday to rip off your outer clothes to display your sexy panty and legs to all the world!

High Cut Panty

In conclusion, it is important to remember that the above recommendations reflect my particular preferences and experiences. So, if you want to wear bikini panties, and feel good doing so, then by all means you should wear bikini panties. Also, my recommendations are largely based on every day and the all-day wearing of panties. While I don’t wear bikini panties daily to work, I have certainly been known to don a pair for a night out at the bar, or while being a “naughty” bedroom partner! So, please consider my comments in this article, but find out for yourself what works for you by not being afraid to try wearing a variety of styles until you find what style makes you feel the prettiest and most feminine!

Two contrasting days with Mistress Ana, from hypnotism to shopping and back to subservience.

Last Friday, i was fortunate enough to be able to get away from home and visit Mistress Ana once more for the express purposes of firstly hypnotising Mistress to assist her in losing weight and secondly going out together to do some shopping in her local charity stores.
Mistress’ daughter is getting married shortly and Mistress needs to lose some weight by Her own admission but she loves chocolate and i guess you could say is addicted to it.  A couple of weekends ago, i did an intensive hypnotherapy course and qualified as a hypotherapist.  i took the course mainly because i wanted to use self-hypnosis to manage pain for i have chronic spondylitis in my left arm and shoulder as well as arthritic knees (my right knee is schedule for a complete knee replacement this coming July).  Also, my wife has pain issues and insomnia and i thought that hypnosis might well help both of us.  In the course i found out that it will indeed help us both with our respective complaints and that it can do a lot of other things as well including aid weight loss.  So, Mistress suggested that i hypnotise Her to get Her off Her chocolate addiction and eating more healthily.
The hypnosis session went very well, taking about 45 minutes, during which time Mistress was in a very deep trance.  i was confident that the hypnosis would work because of the depth of Her trance and because when i brought Her back, the first thing She did was to remove a packet of  M&M’s that were by Her bed.  Today, as i write, 5 days later, i can report that Mistress has not had chocolate since and claims that She now has an aversion to chocolate!
We both love browsing the charity stores and pick up some great bargains and Friday’s excursion was no exception.  As soon as the hypnosis session finished, we went out to the local opportunity shops.  i managed to buy myself 2 belts, four pairs of shoes and two handbags all for less than $30 and you can see my purchases below!

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It was wonderful to be out and about “en femme” with Mistress, browsing the shops and i thoroughly enjoyed it.  i wish we could have this “girl” time together every week but unfortunately getting away twice a week regularly will draw suspicion from my wife.
Yesterday’s visit to Mistress however was back to normal.  i arrived earlier than usual at Mistress’request because She had another appointment at 12.30pm.  However, i arrived to find Mistress still sleeping so entered quietly and changed into “en femme” straight away before checking around to see what chores needed doing.  There was some ironing to be done and so i began with the ironing in the laundry.  Once the ironing was done i decided i would sweep the floors and, with Mistress still asleep at 11.00am, decided also to wake her at 11.15am.  However, that proved unneccessary as She woke shortly after 11.00am.  
Last week, i had taken a home IPL machine that i bought to use for depilation of each other and yesterday morning Mistress decided that Her pubic hair stubble could be a target for testing the appliance.  She sent me to the kitchen to bring an empty glass while She prepared for the treatment.  When i returned, She took the glass from me, went to ther toilet and filled it with Her urine, handing it to me saying “you can take it warm or cold but you will drink it all.”  This was not going to be the first time that i had drunk Mistress’ pee but it was the first time i had drunk it out of a glass.  Also, it was Her first pee of the day and so it was dark, pungent and strong in flavour but, as Her slave, i drank it, not in one gulp but over the time i was attending to the hair removal of Her pubic area. The piss drinking served to remind me of my status and that while we might well have enjoyable times out shopping together and while i may be able to hypnotise Her, i remain always Her slave.

Chic V Neck Long Sleeves Mini Floral Print Mini Dress

i couldn’t resist sharing this Chic V Neck Long Sleeves Mini Floral Print Mini Dress which is a bargain at just $11.79 from Tidestore.  The dress goes very well with the platfrorm sandals that are also a bargain at only $31.19, also from Tidestore.

A very sexy look combining the Chic V Neck Long Sleeves Mini Floral Print Mini Dress with Nude Peep Toe Ankle Strap Stiletto Heel Sandals.