Most Wanted This Week – Rochas F/W 2015 Pumps Available to Pre-Order


I just had to share these gorgeous heels from Rochas – so chunky but deliciously embellished. i love the ankle strap too and the colours are terrific!

Originally posted on A Stairway To Fashion:

Khaki Patent Leather Embellished Pump

Moda Operandi hosts a cool trunk show, ending March 20, where you can put your hands on the stunning Rochas shoes, from the Autumn/Winter 2015 collection – straight from the Parisian catwalk, this model comes in three versions ( lacquered shades of burgundy and khaki ), with an intricate thick and very stable heel richly decorated with beads as if covered with sea anemones. Leather soles, thin strap and a miniature buckle at the ankle, exotic leather –  all to complete an impressive piece that combines classic and rebellious spirit. Delivery will take place from 15 July to 30 October. Hurry up!

Bordeaux Patent Leather Embellished Pump

Khaki Pirarucu Embellished Pump

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Long time no post!

It has been a very long time since i last posted anything on my activities and for that i apologise.  i honestly do not know where time goes for even though i am currently out of work and struggling, my time still seems to get eaten up.  One major reason is the addition of a new grandson who both my wife and i adore and because he lives so close to us want to spend time there whenever we can.  Another reason is that my wife has now retired and, because i have no work at the moment also, she seems to want to do many things with me like going to the movies, shopping, or playing bridge with friends.  However, since our relationship reached a crisis point shortly before Christmas and the major issue of my gender dysphoria and  transgender needs was not addressed until the end of January, things have improved and i am reluctant to rock the boat while things are going well.  We agreed that i should continue to go to mistress’ house every Tuesday although my wife does not actually know it is to Mistress Ana but thinks it is to the house of another transgender girl like me.  At first, Tuesdays were marked by an icy cold atmosphere in the home as my wife let her displeasure be well known but now things have mellowed and there is no discernable change in mood or atmosphere between Tuesday and any other day of the week.  So things have settled down now into an acceptible routine and, with the new baby and all, everyone is happy.
Since i got back from Toronto some 3 weeks ago, i have been to Mistress Ana’s house four times.  Mistress Ana was away each time and is currently in Thailand.  I continue to go to her house to make sure all is in order and that all plants are watered in the garden and that the house remains clean and tidy.  The first week there was a small amount of ironing that needed to be done as well as some cleaning.
Ironing-Desktop cut-poster
Dashing away with the smoothing iron!
The fruits of my labours.
While Mistress had been away, a number of things that i had ordered online had begun to arrive and so i collected a few items that arrived before Mistress had left as well as some notifications of things to collect from the local post office.  Of course, they were all addressed to Roxie so i had to go along with a letter to from Roxie authorising my male identity to collect the packages.  There were packages to collect on each of the first three visits i made so that by the end of it, i was well known and good friends with the people at the post office.
The second week, i watered the garden as usual, spending quite some time out in the front of the house.  I also dusted throughout the house.
Watering the front garden
Watering the front garden.
Dusting in the lounge.
Dusting in the lounge.
 It was while i was dusting that the doorbell rang and i imagined it might be another parcel delivery for me and so went to answer the door.  i was shocked however to find a guy at the door showing me his police identity badge.  He told me that there had been an incident in which a woman had been chased down the street and he had noticed that Mistress’ house had CCTV.  He wanted to know whether the coverage extended to the street and whether or not he could take a look at it.  i replied that i didn’t know for sure and was not sure quite how to operate it but that i would find out.  i gave him Mistress’ phone number as well as my own and told him i would get back to him once i had been in touch with Mistress.  Of course, the CID guy could tell i was transgender, i wasn’t going to fool him with minimal make-up and a my voice but all went well without him batting an eyelid.  i know however from taling with Mistress since that she was highly amused at what she perceived as my discomfort.  There have been several exchanges with the local CID since then and i am happy to say that they have now been in touch with Mistress directly and i am out of the loop at last.
Foxy Roxie’s new tail!
The third week went much as the other two as far as cleaning the house and watering the plants goes.  However, one parcel had arrived for me that i had been waiting for. It was a fox-tail butt plug!  i could not wait to try it and so slid it in straight away.  i have to say that i love the feel and the sensation of the furry tail brushing against the insides of my thighs as i walk and the feel of the butt plug is erotic too. 
i was supposed to hook up with Mistress Ana using Face Time this third visit but could not get a response from her before i had to leave but we did manage to chat the following day.  Today though, we did manage to get together on Face Time and had a good chat.  As per Mistress  instructions from the previous Face Time discussion, i had been trying to get in touch with her new slave, Lucy, to get her to be at the house today but unfortunately she was working and couldn’t be there.  Hopefully she can be there next week although she is not sure for she has a doctors appointment.  Today, Mistress asked me to get in touch with another transgender slave, Diane, who i have not seen for some time.  Hopefully i will have some company next week when i return to Mistress’ house.
Today, i did much the same as the previous two weeks, dusting and cleaning the floors but i also cleaned the toilets.  Next week, i am to oil the outdoor furniture among other things.  i love going to Mistress’ house and not just because it is my one opportunity in the week to be Roxie but i would enjoy it all the more if Mistress were there also.  i miss her a lot.



15 Pairs Of Standout Shoes That’ll Snap You Out Of Your Winter Rut

Here is an article and images taken from a slide show from Lucky Shops Magazine that should brighten the spirits of those of you in the Northern Hemispere that have suffered the extreme cold this winter.  The article is written by MADELINE ALFORD, DIGITAL EDITORIAL ASSISTANT of the magazine.
While the beginning of March signals spring is just around the corner, it feels like the gray chill of winter will never leave. But that doesn’t have to get you or your wardrobe down. In fact, the solution to breaking out of your winter dressing rut can be as simple as finding the right pair of shoes. As much as we love a pair of trusty, go-to kicks, now’s the time to give your black booties a break and start incorporating some color.

L’F Shoes puts its original twist on the loafer with a chunky white sole, patent leather shine and plumes in place of a lucky penny.

Get all linked in with Jeffrey Campbell this winter. These pink pony hair boots have gold chain heels, pointed toes, textured uppers, and genuine leather lining. Cushioned insoles, zip closures at side. Wear them with a black dress and gold jewelry.

Manolo Blahnik yellow satin BB pumps. 4″ (105mm) heel, approximately Pointed toe, satin-covered stiletto heel Slip on Smooth leather lining Leather sole Available in Yellow Made in Italy

An intricate, embroidered tiger lends extra color to these bright leather KENZO loafers. Patent piping defines the notched top line. Low heel. Rubber sole.

This Mary Jane is all grown up in rich navy, and with a pointed-toe and patent sheen.

Known for her muted palettes, handcrafted touches and downtown appeal, NYC-based designer Rachel Comey has a cult following worldwide, and she’s a favorite here at Madewell. We’re into the unexpected Western-inspired details on these sleek oxfords.


A street style staple, this slip-on sneaker steps it up with mixed leather textures in bright electric blue.

Sergio Rossi’s cutout pumps are crafted from suede in tonal shades of red, orange, and burgundy. Maximize these colors by styling this pair with a little black dress. Heel measures approximately 105mm/ 4 inches Red, orange and burgundy suede Slip on

You know what? These are totally sexy flats (no, that’s not an oxymoron). 3/8″ heel. Poly upper. Leather lining and sole. Import.

Stella McCartney’s metallic magenta faux leather pumps incorporate a chic pointed toe and chunky block heel. Make the color pop and wear this pair with denim. Block heel measures approximately 110mm/ 4.5 inches Magenta faux leather Slip on Designer color: Steel Fuxia

Glitter ballet flats. Ombre shading from silver to gold. Pointed toe with rounded low cut front. Heel height of 1 cm.

Coral suede leather court shoes with skinny heel. Heel height approximately 4″. 100% Leather. From Top Shop.

Prada red suede ankle-strap platform sandals. 4.25″ (110mm) heel; 25mm platform, approximately. Peep toe, ankle strap with polished silvertone buckle, suede-covered platform and block heel. Buckles at ankle. Smooth leather lining. Leather and rubber sole with metal logo detail. Available in Red. Made in Italy.

This casual loafer is made from a durable denim or metallic leather and finished with a rubber gum sole. These contemporary shoes feature minimal loafer detailing, a contrast leather band, cushioned footbed and an overstitched finishing.

The Real Deal With Bra Sizing – a guide for other M2F Transgenders

i came across the following article in Lucky Shops Magazine and thought it a useful thing for people like myself to read for it will help them whether they are able to grow their own breasts like i have or whether they are using breast forms.  Whichever the case, it can be quite difficult for a transgender male to female person to determine the correct size and type of bra and to avoid some of the pitfalls.  Although the article was written with genetic women in mind, it offers some very useful tips.  
The article is written by HILARY GEORGE-PARKIN, the ASSOCIATE DIGITAL FEATURES EDITOR for the Lucky Shops Magazine.
We all wear them (well, most of the time, anyways), and yet even for the small-chested, bras can be the most frustrating garment. Often, they’re the first thing we want to fling off the second we walk into the house (and I’m not talking in a sexy way—more like a must-get-comfy-this-instant kind of way) and the thing we ruefully put on in the morning as we get dressed for work. They may even get a worse rap than pants, widely considered Enemy No. 1 of the millennial generation (want proof? BuzzFeed’s anti-pants posts have collectively racked up more than a million views.)
But, bras don’t have to be the absolute worst. In fact, they can be your friend, so long as you buy ones that are comfortable, supportive, well-fitting and fun to wear. Whether you go in for a professional fitting, do it yourself at home or opt for a more holistic method, like True & Co.’sTrue & Co online fit quiz, you’re always better off when you come equipped with a little knowledge of your own about what measurements mean, what shape your breasts are and why different bras are better suited to certain body types.
To that end, I’ve enlisted the help of Aerie‘s Fit and Style expert Jenny Altman (whose career just so happens to include a stint as a former Lucky fashion editor) and True & Co. founder Michelle Lam, whose data-based approach to bra retailing has enticed more than one million women to take their signature fit quiz, culminating in the brand new shape-based fit system TrueSpectrum.
As it turns out, it’s not just customers who struggle with the complexity of bra shopping. “Bras are the most complicated garment you could possibly make,” admits Lam. “There are 20 components in a bra. There are only six components, by the way, in a pair of jeans, which is another ‘hard to fit’, complicated item. With a bra, it’s incredibly hard to diagnose the right fit, because there are so many different dimensions—and second of all, to find a bra that will actually do the job; that will actually fit and also look beautiful at the same time.”
Here, with Altman and Lam’s assistance, as well as the collective wisdom of some devoted online communities, we’ve broken down a few of the need-to-know aspects of bra fit and sizing:
Band Size:
Simply put, the band size correlates to the measurement around your ribcage underneath your breasts—but there is some dispute about exactly how they relate. Namely: the “add-four” method. Many major department stores and American retailers take the ribcage measurement and add four inches (or five if it’s an odd-number) to obtain the band size. Online, however, communities like the subreddit r/ABraThatFitsare strongly against the practice, and encourage trying bras with band sizes that match your ribcage measurement exactly (even if this means you’ll wear a much bigger cup size than you’re used to.) Since most of your support should come from your band (and not from your straps, because ouch), it’s important to find a size that is comfortable enough to wear all day, yet isn’t so loose that it doesn’t do the job. Lam agrees that support is important, but also says that there is a degree of individual preference that has to be taken into account. Many American women may be used to wearing a looser band, she says, and so buying a smaller size (or even buying the same size when you’ve become accustomed to a stretched-out standby) may be an uncomfortable adjustment. “Some women are used to a much looser band, and if you’re an A-cup or a B-cup, it really doesn’t matter,” she says. “If you’re a D-cup or above, it does, and we’ll help you give you more education to figure out which one it the right one for you.”
Cup Size: 
Contrary to pop cultural belief, wearing a DD-cup (or even an E- or F-cup) doesn’t necessarily mean you’re super-busty. That’s because cup size means nothing without also knowing the band measurement. Most common sizing systems say to go up one cup size per inch of difference between your bust measurement and your band measurement, so a 32-inch band with a 33-inch bust would be an A-cup, a 34-inch bust would be a B cup and so on. Visually, that translates to smaller band measurements looking much smaller, even at larger cup sizes (for reference, there are plenty of photos, both NSFW and otherwise, submitted by real women to debunk the myth that A = small and DD  = huge.) Because of the way “sister sizing” works,  a 30D bra has the same cup volume as a 38A, but the spacing of the underwire along the band will differ, as well as the projection of the cup.
Breast Shape; 
Shape is curiously absent from most of bra sizing as we know it, and taking it into account is True & Co.’s raison d’être. Bras fit differently based on where breasts sit on the chest, whether they are full or shallow and how evenly-distributed fullness is through the top and bottom. Most bras are fitted to one size and then scaled up and down from there, and learning what styles work best for your shape is usually a matter of trial-and-error. True & Co.’s in-house lines, however, are designed to be suited to a particular shape, which they label with eight distinct colors. “So we thought about, if you were a Citrine, meaning you’re super-full, super-round, what sorts of things we should think about in the architecture of a bra that should be different than if you were a Mulberry, where you’re a side-weighted, slightly fuller shape, you just need different things from your bra, and even some of you should be wearing a balconette, some of you should be wearing a demi.”
How To Put On A Bra: 
This may sound like the kind of thing you learn as a tween, but the fact is, many (if not most) women don’t pay enough attention to this crucial step. The common term used is the “scoop-and-swoop” method, and Altman describes it as such: “If you were to lean forward in front of your mirror with your bra on, take your right hand and reach all the way back into your left cup. Basically, there’s a lot of breast tissue that spills out of the cup and goes to the side or to the back,” she says, explaining that this can create the appearance of “bulge” along the back of the band. “So really reach back and scoop and pull it all as far forward into the cup as you can, and then do it on the other side, and then when you stand up, you’ll see like, there’s a big difference. There’s like a ‘Woah’ moment you’ll have in front of your mirror.”
The following images and captions offer real tried-and-true advice for common complaints like slippery straps, bulge-inducing bands and asymmetrical breasts, plus bra recommendations to find your very best fit.

One Of Your Boobs Is Bigger Than The Other

Interview Padded Bra, $41, Huit,; Boa Demi Bra, $75,

If you’re a little (or even a lot) lopsided on top, don’t despair; you’re definitely not alone.  Altman estimates about 80 percent of women are bigger on one side than the other—and yet we still have trouble accepting how common it is. “It’s part of this secret culture where I guess we just don’t talk about things enough, but so often women have uneven breast size, and it’s, like, the most normal thing ever,” she says, advising you fit for the larger breast, and use either a silicone bra insert or built-in padding to fill in any gaps in the smaller cup. One fix is to buy a bra with removable padding, like the striped one you see here, and double it up in one side. Or if the size difference is less prominent, you can opt for a bra like this one by Negative, which has ruching along the underwire for a more comfortable, forgiving fit.

Your Underwire Is Painful

Deco Plunge Seamless Molded Plunge Underwire, $68, Freya,; Lola Non-Padded Bra, $16.50,

There are several ways (far too many, in fact) for an underwire to hurt. It can pinch you at the bottom, jab you at the sides, poke you in the sternum or dig into your ribcage. No wonder they’re the bane of most bra-wearers existence. So it’s a little funny that the industry term for the way they encircle the breasts is called the “smile” of the wire. If the smile isn’t wide enough, says Altman, you may need to go up a cup size, or else the bra might just not the right shape for you: “It needs to fully encapsulate the breast area, and come under the underarm, and not be digging in to the actual breast tissue.” Thanks to the collective knowledge of the internet (read:, you can find which brands tend to have wider or narrower underwires. Gossard and Panache may be good starting points for those who prefer a wider smile, while Freya may better suit those who want something narrower.

Your Straps Are Always Falling Off

Brooke Racerback Push-Up Bra, $33.71,; Enlighten Racerback Bra, $58, Le Mystere,

First and foremost, make sure you are readjusting your straps when you put on your bra for the day to make sure they’re tight enough and in the right spot. If you’re doing that and the slippery little buggers are still falling down? According to Altman, “That’s a terrible side effect of a bad bra. If that happens all the time, I always say to girls, ‘Just try a racerback!’ We have the most gorgeous lace-back racerback bras, and with a racerback, your straps will never slip off your shoulders. It’s the easiest solution.”

Your Band Is Digging In

Stardust Bra, $56, She Walks In Beauty (+ Light),; Amourette Spotlight Underwire Bra, $60, Triumph,

Ah, the dreaded back bulge. While it may seem like the only recourse is to go up a band size, this may not be the only solution. One possible culprit is too-small cups, which can push breast tissue back and give the illusion of extra flab (neglecting the “scoop-and-swoop” technique can have a similar effect.) Bras like this lace number by Triumph go up to an H cup, ensuring everything has ample space to sit where it should. Another option is to go with a wider band or even a long-line bra, which can have a smoothing effect on the torso.  

Roxie’s last night in Toronto before an awful journey home

Well, i am home again after an horrendous journey back from Toronto which took 48 hours thanks to a technical fault on the American Airlines plane that was supposed to take me to Dallas to connect with my QANTAS flight back to Australia.  However, the last night in Toronto was great.  i shared it as Roxie with Lady Dynah and some of her friends. i went out to dinner as Roxie with Lady Dynah and two of her friends that i had not previously met, Zhel and Sheridan but before we went to the restaurant, Lady Dynah and i met in a Starbucks for coffee and she had with her an Iranian guy who is taking the same night class as her – paralegal studies. He is only a young guy, mid-20’s i guess, and handsome. Lady Dynah showed him some of my pictures from the photo shoot as well as those of my weekend and he was very complimentary. Indeed, so too were Dynah’s two friends Zhel and Sheridan when she showed them my pictures also once we were in the restaurant.  We enjoyed a meal and drinks and got the waiter to take pictures of us as a group.
Myself with Lady Dynah
Myself with Lady Dynah
Myself, Lady Dynah, Zhel and Sheridan
Myself, Lady Dynah, Zhel and Sheridan
It was a really enjoyable evening and a lovely end to my short stay in Toronto.  However, the next day was a rude awakening.  My flight was due to leave on time at 3.15pm and we boarded on schedule and were ready to depart ahead of time. However, we were told there was a minor technical fault and that take off would be delayed until it was fixed but that this would not take more than a few minutes. Two hours later, the fault was not fixed and they advised us to leave the plane which we did. i was one of the first people off the plane and went immediately to the service desk to see what they could do because even if we had taken off within the next 15 minutes, i would have missed my connection in Dallas.
It was a good job that i did because i was attended to immediately and within minutes a very large queue had formed behind me. The attendant was good, patient and persevering and advised me that it was no good going via Dallas at all because there were no seats available on any airline from Dallas to Australia for 3 days! So, after trying many different options she finally managed to get me seats on a Cathay Pacific flight that left for Hong Kong at 1.30am and connected to a Cathay Pacific flight for Perth after an 8 hours stopover! They booked me a hotel room and gave me vouchers for meals and told me to go to a specific baggage carousel (number 1) and retrieve my luggage. i went to the specified baggage carousel and waited. As i waited, a number of other passengers that had been on my flight also arrived to collect their baggage, some for carousel 1 and others from carousel 2. So, we all waited in a spot where we could see both carousels. After an hour of waiting, one of the group of passengers waiting to retrieve their bags decided to go and look elsewhere in the baggage hall to see if the bags had appeared on another carousel They had – all of our bags were at the opposite end of the building in the area assigned for oversize baggage!
By now, i had missed the shuttle bus that had been allocated to take me to my hotel so had to phone the hotel to get them to return which they did, arriving some 20 minutes later. The temperature outside was now minus 20 degrees! i had had to retrieve my coat, gloves, scarf and hat from my suitcase or i would have frozen to death! When i got to the hotel i found they had got me a nice room which was good but the hotel had no restaurant so my food vouchers were no good. However, i persuaded the guy on the desk to give me a hotel voucher to the same value in exchange for my voucher so that i could order in some food from a nearby pizza place so i didn’t starve.
It was around 7.00pm by the time i got to my room in the hotel and i had to leave it at 11.00pm to take the shuttle back to the airport and check in for my Cathay Pacific flight. At the check-in desk, the agent discovered that there were 2 bookings in my name, one for Economy class and another in Premium Economy and my ticket was for Premium Economy but when she tried to check me in on Premium Economy the booking disappeared from the system. It then took them an hour to sort out the problem as i stood at the check in desk. Finally, they sorted out the mess and i had boarding cards and was able to get into the VIP lounge.
From there, things went well and we arrived in Hong Kong on schedule, i spent the 8 hour stop-over there in the first class lounge and we left for Perth on time and arrived on time at 10.45pm on Saturday evening, exactly 12 hours later than i would have arrived if American Airlines had not had the technical problem with the plane. i would also have been in business class all the way and not in Premium Economy. But, at least i managed to get home even if i was exhausted from the journey.


Roxie enjoys herself in Toronto

i arrived very early on Thursday morning and it would have been after 2.00am before i got to bed. i slept through until 11.30am, showered and shaved all over my body, applied make-up, had breakfast, dressed and then went out to the shops. Firstly i re-activated my Toronto cell phone and then bought some groceries. Next i phoned Lady Dynah and arranged to meet her the next day.
By now it was early evening and i was hungry so i went out again to a small Jazz Bistro that is on the same block as my apartment but on the opposite side of the road. This is how i was dressed for the day and how i went out in the evening. The picture was taken in the apartment i was renting.
Dressed ready to go out shopping
Dressed ready to go out shopping.
At the Bistro, i was greeted by a lovely young girl at the door in a delightful and pretty mini-dress and i complimented her on it straight away and noted in particular that the unusual shade of orange in her shoes matched one of the flowers in the print of her dress. This exchange made her very happy and she sat me at a table where i could see the piano player and the bar and most of the restaurant – it was one of the best tables in the place. The barman, Daniel, came over to ask me what i would like to drink and i decided on a glass of red wine and ordered my meal a the same time. The music from the piano was lovely. Daniel asked me if i was staying for the show and i replied that having just arrived from Australia i was tired and would not stay to which he replied by asking me how long was my journey, where in Australia did i live and so on. i felt very comfortable in this place and enjoyed my meal before going to collect my coat as i left. The girl on the coat check was of mixed race with gorgeous black curly hair and she too was very nice and we chatted for a while as i pulled on my coat, again mostly about my journey to Toronto and why i had travelled there. By now it was 9.00pm and i was very very tired and so returned to the apartment and straight to bed.
i slept late on Friday, not getting up until 9.30am but feeling fine and in the time zone. i showered, shaved, applied my make-up, dressed, had breakfast, deal with important work related emails and then called Lady Dynah to make sure we were still on for our planned girls afternoon! All was good and i set off for the Metro to travel the half-hour journey to her house. i was dressed exactly the same as on Thursday because i had not brought too many clothes due in large part to the difficulty i had in getting them into my suitcase without my wife noticing. i arrived at Lady Dynah’s house at 1.00pm. It is a small 3 bedroom basement apartment really and it is full for she now has two of her 3 children living with her (her eldest daughter has moved out on her own) as well as a couple of her elder daughter’s friends who are sharing one room. It is all very compact and cosy but does not lend itself for the BDSM activities that Lady Dynah enjoys and so our afternoon had to be entirely vanilla.
We went to a ladies spa run by a Filipino friend of Lady Dynah’s and we both had manicures and pedicures and i also had my eyebrows trimmed and shaped. The girl who did my nails and eyebrows is also a transgender girl and she was very nice and offered to help me and show me around Toronto when i come next time, giving me her phone and email details. We spent the entire afternoon in the spa, chatting with the owner, her staff of three and some of the other customers. Again, i felt very comfortable and at home, thoroughly enjoying being out and about as the woman i really am.
After the spa, we went shopping for some Filipino foods in a shop nearby and then headed back to Lady Dynah’s house. By now it was bitterly cold and even though we both had very heavy warm coats, scarves, gloves and hats, the temperature with the wind chill factor was -20 degrees and there was nowhere out of the wind while we waited for the bus.
Once we got back to Lady Dynah’s, her younger daughter and one of the two friends were home. We had a hot drink to warm us through and then set about preparing dinner – or rather Lady Dynah did. i often get to do the cooking but this time Lady Dynah insisted on preparing a Filipino dish for dinner. We chatted while dinner was being prepare and Lady Dynah told me about her love life which is currently non-existent and she has just finished a relationship with one guy because with her work, having all her family with her in Canada at last and the pressure of them all living in the tiny house was all too much. Apparently this guy she has just finished with has taken it really badly, is madly jealous and has found my blog and is also now following me on other web pages and is giving Dynah a hard time over me. However, Lad Dynah is a tough cookie and has put him in his place and he has backed off a little. However, when i got home i checked him out and found that he had indeed subscribed to my blog and my Facebook page!
After dinner which was lovely and washed down with red wine, i headed back to my rented apartment. It was now 11.00pm ad the temperature outside was even colder and i was shivering by the time i got on the train. However, i warmed up on the train and only had a short walk from the station on Queen St. to my apartment. It was after midnight again by the time i got to bed.
On Saturday, again i woke a little late, around 9.30am, showered, shaved and applied my make-up as usual before dressing and making myself breakfast. i felt really feminine with my red painted nails but realised too that i had to go out and buy nail varnish remover because i would have to remove the polish before i went to the conference which started the next day. i also needed some make-up remover wipes and so once i had finished breakfast, i went off to the shops. i bought all of the items i needed plus a pair of patterned black panty hose that was reduced in price to a bargain $2. Next i found a coffee shop and stayed a while enjoying a cup of coffee and watching the world go by. Yesterday, i had invited Lady Dynah to join me for dinner and needed to check if she was available for she had to work and was not sure whether she would be finished in time. So, i set her a text message from the coffee shop to see if she was going to join me. The idea was also that she would be able to stay the night with me in my apartment and so be able to play a little BDSM.
By now it was mid- afternoon and so i went shopping again to a wig shop that i know that is close to my rented apartment here. i was looking for a short feminine style, similar to the one i wear a lot but in a redder colour. i tried on several, some wavy, some curly, some straight and finally decided on one which feels lovely, the hair is so soft and shiny and it is more my colour. However, i did not wear it out yet because the people in the apartment block now know me with the original wig which was a gift from Lady Dynah last year and i wanted also to keep wearing that wig for Lady Dynah.
As i walked back to the apartment, i had to pass the Jazz Bistro again and decided that it being Saturday, i had best book a table for two just in case Lady Dynah could make it. Unfortunately, after i got back to the apartment, Lady Dynah phoned to apologise and tell me she could not make it because she was working until 8.00pm. i had booked a table for 8.00pm and the Jazz show started at 9.00pm and the restaurant liked to have all of the food served before the show started. So, i was going to be on my own. i phoned the restaurant and changed my booking and instead of a table for two i was given a seat at the corner of the bar, up against a wall but still with a good view of the stage and the musicians.
So, now i needed to get ready. i shaved again and re-applied my make-up before slipping into one of the two dresses i bought in Santiago in Chile shortly before Christmas. This is how i looked before i headed out to the Bistro.
Ready to hit the town!
Ready to hit the town!
Dressed to kill?
Dressed to kill?
At the bistro, there was a different girl on the door, the same girl who had taken my booking, and she greeted me very nicely and the coat check girl remembered me and welcomed me back. i felt wonderful! I was led to my seat by the bar and Daniel, the bar man also remembered me and welcomed me back. i ordered a Toronto Blonde – a cocktail based on gin that was invented by Daniel. It was delicious! To my right, there were three other seats at the bar that were empty but all reserved. A guy came in and was given a seat not next to me but the one two seats away. However, he decided he would sit right next to me! i knew i looked good and sexy with my short skirt riding high up my legs and wondered if his decision to move alongside me might have been influenced by my appearance and whether he was going to try and chat me up. Well he did strike up a conversation, general at first like asking where i was from because he had heard my voice ordering my meal and then the conversation moved on and began covering all sorts of things including the music, the quartet we were going to be hearing in the show, travel, work and many other topics. i was enjoying his company very much. Our respective meals came along with a bottle of red wine (Argentine malbec) that i had ordered myself and then the music began. The Don Thompson quartet put on a terrific show, great music with Don himself on the vibes, a guitar, a bass and a drummer. At the interval, my new friend got up to go to the toilet and returned saying that he had found a table for two that was empty and with a great view of the quartet and would i like to join him there which of course i did. i was now sat up against another wall with him to my right, boxing me into my space. Over the interval we discovered that both of us were married, we shared our names and our professions (he is a pilot for Air Canada and based in Vancouver and was only in town for one night). In addition, i had told him that i had grandchildren and he was asking me about how i managed to be a mother and to be successful as a geologist and i told him that when my children were young my husband and i were living in Africa and the Middle East and were able to afford a nanny. He clearly was convinced that i was a genuine woman. He also then quite casually and within the context of our conversation began talking about sexual relationships and the need to have a physical as well as a mental attraction. He went on to say how much he was enjoying meeting me and our conversation. It was at this point that i realised he might be looking for something extra from me and my mind began to think of how i might escape his attentions if things developed further in that direction. But i need not have worried. He asked if he could take my photo and i said of course as long as he allowed me to take one of him and that he promised to email me both pictures. Here are the pictures, first me and then my new friend, Peter.
Roxie at Jazz Bistro
Roxie at Jazz Bistro
Peter at Jazz Bistro
Peter at Jazz Bistro
The music continued after the interval and then when it finished we carried on our conversation back at the bar along with Don Thompson and the members of his quartet, the barman Daniel, the coat check girl, the girl on the door, and the restaurant owner. i had another Toronto Blonde and persuaded Daniel the barman to give me the recipe. By now it was midnight and Peter, my new friend, had to leave for he was to be flying the following morning so we said our goodbyes and left separately. i had thoroughly enjoyed my evening and felt especially pleased with myself for my voice had not given me away the whole night chatting with a guy who thought me to be an attractive and interesting woman. Also, the bar man, Daniel, and the other staff at the Bistro were all lovely and treated me as a woman. This has done wonders for my confidence at being out and about as Roxie.



Mistress Ana has fun with her two sissy slaves

It is 2 weeks now since i last saw Mistress Ana and it was the first time i had visited her along with Lucy, Mistress’ new slave.  Lucy is not a true sissy, Mistress just has her wear a skimpy maid’s uniform whenever she visits.  i doubt that Lucy would cross-dress at all if it were up to her.  On this occasion, i arrived at Mistress’ house early and was dressed fully “en femme” when the time arrived for me to go and collect Lucy from a nearby rendezvous point.  i had to bring her to Mistress’ house blindfold because until Lucy becomes fully established as a reliable slave, Mistress does not wish her to know exactly where she lives.
So, i collected Lucy who changed into her maid’s uniform on arrival.
Lucy in her maid's uniform
Lucy in her maid’s uniform
Mistress then detailed a number of chores for us all and left it to me to determine who did what.  i set Lucy on dusting while i went outside and cleaned the barbeque and then did the ironing while Lucy swept and mopped the floors.  Of course, with two of us doing the household chores the work would be finished in good time and so Mistress was able to have some fun.  Our work was interupted firstly by Mistress having Lucy use her tongue on Mistress’ pussy while i suckled on her breasts.  Later, we were stopped working again and the roles were reversed.  On each occasion though, when Mistress had had enough of our respective labial attentions, Mistress had me suck on Lucy’s cock.  
Roxie begins to suck Lucy's cock
Roxie begins to suck Lucy’s cock
Roxie takes it all in
Roxie takes it all in
This forced bi is not something i particularly enjoy but Mistress enjoys watching me do it and so i am happy to do so and twice on this day i took Lucy’s cock into my  mouth and gave it a good sucking.  On each occassion however, Mistress called a halt before Lucy could cum although on each occasion i did get a taste of her pre-cum.
The following Tuesday i went again to Mistress’ house.  This time Mistress was away and there was no Lucy and so i had a list of chores to do on my own.  Mistress is going to be away now for some time and so i will not see her but i will continue to go to her house and water plants, dust and make sure everything is in order for her return.